About Me

In my early 40s. Why? Because I've come out of a 20-year monogamous marriage, have never done anything like this before, have the cash and I'm not ready to date yet. I also figured it was safer from disease than Tinder. Plus, well… I'm in my 40s, balding and out of shape…

Location: Australia, in a city with legal, licensed brothels.

Visits: 5 different brothels, 10 different sex workers including one private escort.

Purpose: Sharing useful info for others. Opinions and observations are personal; sex workers are welcome to comment.

Terminology: Using "Sex worker" or "Escort" instead of "Prostitute" for respect.

Before You Go

Many brothels have websites where you can read bios of the girls. Most photos are fake; the fine print notes "likeness only". Websites often show a roster so you can see who's working and book in advance for your preferred girl.

On Arrival

All brothels had off-street parking behind a 6+ foot fence. Some even had sheets to cover your car. Signs were minimal. Entry required being buzzed in, with a manager greeting and explaining procedures if it's your first visit.

The Small Room

Introductions happen in a small room with chairs or a couch, a side table with porn and sexual health pamphlets, and a TV with low-volume porn. CCTV cameras may be present. Safe sex (with condoms) is mandatory by law.

The Rates

Two rates apply: brothel rate (time-based, covering basic services like massage, hand job, PIV sex, oral) and sex worker's rate (for "extras"). Extras vary per worker and may include kissing, oral on the worker, fingering, deep throat, toys, etc.

Special Packages:

• GFE (Girlfriend Experience): Includes oral on the sex worker, kissing her breasts, multiple orgasms.
• PSE (Porn Star Experience): Includes GFE plus French kissing, deep throat, toys, squirting, etc.

The Intros

Girls introduce themselves one by one, wearing something sexy, and answer questions. Selection depends on your preferences and their availability. Hotter girls often include fewer extras in the standard fee.

The Bedroom & Extras

After selection, you are taken to a bedroom. Rooms may include shower, spa bath, massage table, or themed decor. Confirm extras and pay cash. Inspection for infections occurs using gloves and light. Shower is required before starting. Massage may be offered to break the ice.

The Sex

Good: You may have sex with women you wouldn't encounter otherwise. Experienced sex workers provide guidance. Opportunity to try new things.

Bad: Lacks emotional connection, passion, or may feel mechanical. Sex worker may have multiple clients in a day and could seem less engaged.

Afterwards

Shower, optional massage, and timing is often tracked by phone alarms or music playlists. Exits are private. Popular workers may be booked out, so plan in advance if possible.

General Observations

• Hotter women may charge more for extras.
• Music is used for time tracking and mood setting.
• Some workers fake orgasm to help clients cum.
• Service quality varies; rapport and hygiene are important.

Etiquette & Tips

• Girls are human; respect them.
• Build rapport in the small room; chemistry matters.
• Hygiene is essential: shower, clean hair, teeth, genitals, and wear clean clothes.
• Shave or groom sensitive areas for comfort.
• Do not haggle; prices are posted.
• Keep track of your time; workers may use shower/massage to adjust clock.