What Is a Blended Orgasm? A Simple Guide to How It Works and How to Experience One

Ready to Have Multiple Orgasms at Once?

The vaginal orgasm is often elusive, but people with clitorises and vaginas are seriously blessed. Tricks and toys can help master it (hint: the number one trick is patience), and it's possible to achieve multiple versions of orgasm — at the same time. We're talking vaginal, clitoral, anal, and other erogenous orgasms.

But lately, a different kind of orgasm has made its way into the sex dialect: the blended orgasm.

What Is a Blended Orgasm?

A blended orgasm is defined as a clitoral and vaginal orgasm that happens at the same time. So yes — it's technically two simultaneous orgasms that often result in a more intense, full-body response.

This means the first step to having a blended orgasm is being able to stimulate both the clitoris and vagina at the same time, which isn't as hard as it sounds.

First, you need to understand how both vaginal and clitoral orgasms work.

Vaginal orgasms usually involve stimulating the G-spot, located on the inner vaginal wall. Applying rhythmic pressure to the G-spot can lead to orgasm.

Researchers have also found that the G-spot is sensitive because it's part of the clitoral network. The clitoral root sits directly behind the anterior vaginal wall, meaning G-spot stimulation can also engage parts of the clitoris.

Clitoral orgasms happen when pressure and repetitive motion are applied to a wet clitoris (lube helps a lot). The clitoris is a nerve-dense organ at the top of the vulva that extends internally and is much larger than most people assume.

Repetitive up-and-down or circular motions using wet fingers, the palm, or the tongue can create enough stimulation to reach orgasm.

How Does It Feel?

A blended orgasm can be summarized as intense, powerful, and amazing — often stronger than just clitoral or vaginal orgasms alone.

Because both the vagina and clitoris are stimulated at once, a blended orgasm may trigger anything from involuntary movements that mimic convulsions to female ejaculation in some cases, especially when the G-spot is involved.

It may help to understand them separately:

• Clitoral orgasms tend to feel surface-level, tingly, and mentally electrifying.
• Vaginal orgasms feel deeper, more internal, with pulsing sensations along the vaginal walls.

No orgasm is the same, though. Your release might be a soft sigh or a powerful wave. When exploring pleasure, it's best not to treat orgasm as a goal.

If you feel comfortable with your partner and want to try for a blended orgasm, here are some tips.

How to Achieve a Blended Orgasm

Even if you know how to make yourself come in both ways, blending the two takes practice. The key is to relax and focus on pleasure rather than chasing a specific type of orgasm.

You also don't need to stimulate both areas right away. If one takes longer to peak, focus there first. And don't rush — blended orgasms favor slow buildup.

Solo Play

To achieve a blended orgasm on your own, begin by stimulating the G-spot:

• Use your fingers or a sex toy to press upward toward your belly button using a "come hither" motion.
• Repeat the motion and maintain focus on that area instead of thrusting in and out.
• Use your other hand to stimulate your clitoris. Add lube if needed.
• Apply fast, firm, repetitive pressure with your fingers or palm, either back and forth or in circles.

Dual vibrators or rose-style toys are especially helpful for reaching both spots with less effort.

Partnered Play

If you have a partner, guide them to your G-spot using their fingers first. That same "come hither" motion works well before any penetration.

Your partner can also use their mouth to stimulate the clitoris—starting with slow kisses, then using the tongue with increasing speed, pressure, and movement.

During penetration, one of the best positions for blended stimulation is the riding high position.

To try this:

• Lie on your back.
• Your partner angles their penis or toy so the upper shaft rubs your clitoris during each thrust.
• Each movement should slide or press against your clitoral hood to deliver consistent stimulation.

Every body is different, so feel free to adjust angles or pressure until you find what works.

And remember, a blended orgasm doesn't have to be only clitoral + vaginal. Any orgasm combo — including anal or nipple orgasms — is still a pleasure win.

Trust Your Gut with the Facts

A 2016 study found that about 54% of women orgasm from combined clitoral and vaginal stimulation, compared to 34% from clitoral only and 6% from vaginal only.

And according to historic research, sexually active women can clearly distinguish between clitoral and vaginal orgasms.

Women describe:

• Clitoral orgasms as localized, intense, and physically satisfying.
• Vaginal orgasms as deeper, stronger, longer-lasting, and more psychologically fulfilling.

Now imagine both happening at the same time.