Don't Sleep On (But Do Sleep With) People In Wheelchairs
Last week, I matched with a really hot guy on Tinder who sent me the most respectful message asking to give me head. Usually, I'd be turned off by this but I'm moving to another country and was looking for exactly this type of situation to happen. However, I was wondering why such a good-looking guy was immediately offering head. Not that hot guys don't give head, but I found it interesting that he was eager to please. My intuition told me something was there but I didn't look too deep into it.
Fast forward to yesterday and I find myself in his city so I hit him up to take him up on his offer and he tells me to come through. I ask him to send me his address. I waited like 15 mins for him to text me and when he did I saw that he sent me a picture of himself... In a wheelchair. He said if I didn't mind that then I should come over.
I was cracking up. I KNEW it was something. I had a small reckoning with myself, 1) because he didn't mention this beforehand and 2) I had never hooked up with or dated someone who was disabled. After 20 mins of debating what to do. I decided that even tho he should've mentioned this earlier, I was already there and already planned to hang out whether we did anything or not so why not?
Umm it ended up being such a dope night! He is FINE, so kind, so charismatic, and so GOOD at giving head! He ate me out and fingered me for literally 6 hours. His arms are strong AF and I tend to squirm a lot while getting head (like try to fight the guy off lol) but he had me pinned in place, it was so hot. I came multiple times, we slept and cuddled, woke up and did it all over again. I've never had a guy be so focused on my pleasure and so turned on by seeing me enjoy myself. I wish I had met him sooner before I left.
All I can say is, while unconventional, that ended up being one of the best hookups I've had.
Moral of the story: Give men and women in wheelchairs (or with any physical disability for that matter) the same chance you would any able-bodied human.
ETA: His entire lower half (including le penis) is not functional so no I couldn't reciprocate in that way, but trust that we both equally enjoyed ourselves :)
