I had trouble getting off during BJ until ...

Oct 11, 2025

ZhouJordan

Last night my gf and I were hooking up and she was blowing me for a while (like 10 minutes) and I just couldn't get off. It's kind of complicated because I take medication that can cause sexual dysfunction and sometimes I can't get off no matter how bad I want to.

Anyway, I didn't want her to get tired because I've heard blowing dudes can become uncomfortable for the woman (mouth getting tired and whatnot) so I gently told her "Don't worry, it's just a medication thing. You're so hot but I don't think it's going to happen tonight."

So I played with her for a while and made sure she got off and then she insisted that she start blowing me again.

Take 2: I lay down on the bed and she starts up again, I find my mind wandering and am actually getting a bit stressed out because I'm worried she isn't really into it and am thinking about telling her it's okay to stop again because I don't think I'll be able to cum (she had been sucking me for like another 15 minutes) BUT THEN she looked up at me and made eye contact and said in a sexy voice "I love pleasuring you." And continued blowing me.

Boom. Fireworks. It made me feel so good to know that she was actually still into it and that she was doing it because she loved me and wanted me to be satisfied. Her words let me relax and enjoy it and I came like 60 seconds after.

I totally owe her one now... I love this woman.

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I was blowing and stroking my partner for legit like 30 minutes once and he was like "ah I don't know why this is taking so long, I'm sorry, I don't know if it'll happen tonight." But I was determined to get him off, so I kept going. After a bit, I finally got him kinda close. At one point, I just looked up at him and smiled while I jerked him, and almost immediately he moaned and pushed over the edge and finished. When we were done, he said "This is really weird, but I think it was literally just your smile that got me there." Eye contact and enthisiasm are sexy. Don't discount them.

Eye contact is always a good move, and guys seem to really enjoy it :)

That is a keeper if I have ever heard about one! I hope she is as lucky to have you as you are to have her. Stories like these puts a smile on my face so thanks for sharing =)

I consistently see that mental blocks are often a major reason men, women, and friends beyond the binary have trouble with sex. Would be interesting to see a study done to figure out exactly how common it is. I see it so often it must be close to the top reason for sexual problems. Conquering ones mind may be they key to unlocking great sex.

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I had trouble getting off during BJ until ...

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