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My fiancée’s vagina is too good. Help!

Oct 08, 2025

ZhouJordan

My whole life I have NEVER had an issue with ejaculating early. In fact, if there has ever been a problem, its been the opposite issue. Obviously there have been a couple of outliers but ive almost always been able to last really long and really put in the work when it comes to having sex. That was, until I met my fiancée. The first time we had sex I came pretty quick and was really embarrassed but I figured it was one of those rare times that I just get over-excited or something. Ever since though, unless im really drunk, I feel like im going to cum as soon as I put it in. I can barely even put any strokes in on her before im already cumming. Its not a major problem for her because I always get her off first either by fingering or by mouth, but I have genuinely never felt a vagina this good in my life. Its too good! I want to enjoy the sex for a lot longer but I almost never can! I dont think its psychological so how in the world is hers so much better than anyone ive ever been with?! What can I do to last longer so that I can enjoy sex for longer with her!?

Top Comments:

I can relate. & it's true what others have said. I think it really is the plight of being with someone you genuinely love and are strongly attracted to. It's a positive thing and not at all the end of the road. Good place to be. Having sex more often helps! I notice when my fiancée and I haven't had sex for several days, the tendency/urge to finish quickly is more pronounced. Breathing and slowing down helps. Focusing on the journey and not the destination. There's a lot you can do… solo and together to improve this.
My wife is super tight on me and it's really good for both of us. But it does come with its down sides. Sometimes I can barely last 5 minutes even though I'm trying, sometimes I can really hold out for her and keep working. If it's a quickie, I can cum in seconds. My first 2-3 times with her I had trouble but we found our groove and everything lined up Sometimes I cum fast but she's always been nurturing and reassuring about it. It's no big deal, in 20 minutes or 3 hours I can show up for her again. Or, even if I can't, I will be there with her to help her along how ever she wants and make sure she feels cared for. So much of this is very highly specific to our relationship--how we communicate and all that. So, she's your fiancee? Tell her all about your experience and what you like. Ask her about her experience and what she likes.
It's psychological. I'm sure her vagina is great. I'm also sure it's not wildly different physically. "Sex is more meaningful and pleasurable with someone you love" is a cliche but it's a cliche for a reason. It's a well known fact! Anyway as for how to last longer, go back to basics, orgasm control is all about what's between your ears not what's between her legs. There is a subreddit here dedicated to PE that has some useful stickied posts
vaginas actually do vary wildly in shape & size. every vagina is different and will feel different. it could absolutely be physical as well.

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