My girlfriend LOVES the idea of sleep sex..but her asleep self does NO

My girlfriend LOVES the idea of sleep sex..but her asleep self does NOT

Oct 09, 2025

ZhouJordan

So a bit of context my girlfriend has confessed to me she loved the idea of me fucking her while she was asleep, it had always been a huge fantasy of hers so of course I want to make her happy, so we set aside a night where she gives me the Go ahead to do it, she's SO excited before she falls asleep that she's finally going to get to experience it, so I stay up for a few hours after her and slowly sneak into bed and lie next to her, i go to start rubbing her pussy and the SECOND my hand makes contact with her she snaps up and says "What the fuck are you doing? Get the fuck off of me" and falls back into bed

I had to cover my mouth to not laugh, the next morning she wakes up all sexy and asks if I had a good time last night and I responded with "I TRIED", I explained what happened and while she was disappointed we both found it hilarious

Do you guys know any way she can convince her sleep self to not bite my head off next time

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My ex liked the thought of it. Her demeanor while asleep and response to any stimuli was clear. Don't fuck with me. Literally.

My husband said im too grumpy when anyone tries to wake me, even for food lol

I wouldn't try it like that again. Instead, do it as "roleplay"-ish. Get into bed together, wait until she's almost asleep and do it then. She'll likely be awake enough to consciously want it, but hazy enough to keep it interesting for the both of you, especially if she actively acts like she's asleep as much as she can. And she gets to experience it too!

My advice as a female would be not to go right to her spot. Work your way to it. Start by softly kissing on her neck and touching her.

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