my husband is fully turned off since he found out breastfeeding can cause orgasms
I had no idea it was such a weird thing to some people but i just casually talked about it one time when we were talking about sex and he got so disgusted that asked me never to breastfeed our children again and only pump. i thought he was joking at first but then he did act verry disgusted when he saw us. i honestly talked to my therapist and searched online and apparently its very common and i told him that, but he doesnt understand. now he even refuses to have sex with me im really confused. need help asap
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Wait till he finds out where the baby comes from
Lol yeah. He needs some sex ed. And nipples are erogenous zones, some women are more sensitive than others with it. This is a natural thing, even if I myself view both this, pregnancy and birth, as a cruel and weird joke on women. The only time men have to use their erogenous zone(s) to conceive is when it's all nice and hot. Couldn't they have something else except for the fun stuff? And then not even reading up on it, like OPs guy 😒
I never got one while breastfeeding. It did cause contractions especially when healing after childbirth. But no orgasms. Lol
To be as charitable to him as possible: I think, he might be conflating the physiological phenomenon of orgasming while breast feeding, with pedophilia. I say this because you mention that he looks disturbed/disgusted when seeing you breastfeed your baby. Basically, he might think that women feel sexual attraction to their breast feeding children, because he doesn't know that orgasms can be an entirely physical phenomenon with no link to a person's desire. Just as someone can orgasm while being raped, but still feel emotionally devastated by the experience.
