The Best Strapless Strap-On for Couples

Jan 13, 2024

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What is a Strapless Strap On?

Ready for a harness-free, double-ended dildo adventure? Our strapless strap-ons have a bulb or pony end for the wearer and a shaft for penetrating the receiver. These versatile toys can be used anally or vaginally, delivering pleasure to both partners simultaneously. While there are many benefits to owning a strapless strap-on, we must warn you - there's a learning curve! Holding it in place requires strong vaginal muscles, but trust us, the fun and intimacy you'll experience with your partner will be well worth it.

Things to consider when choosing a strapless strap on

Size — You will want to choose a strapless strap-on that fits both partners so be sure to check the size of the shaft and the insertable bulb.

Shape — The shape of a strapless strap on can be a defining factor in pleasure. If you prefer something that targets the G-spot or p-spot, you’ll want a strapless strap on with a curved shaft.

Materials — Opt for a body-safe material, like silicone to keep you and your partner safe.

Realism — Do you love the phallic look, or do you prefer neutral shaft designs? Choose between a realistic design or something more abstract.

Vibrations — Do want the added stimulation of vibrations? You can choose between a strapless strap-on with a motor inside or one with a removable bullet vibrator.

Flexibility and firmness — depending on the material, your strapless strap-on can be soft and flexible or completely rigid. Many find a soft or flexible silicone more comfortable but rigid strapless strap-ons tend to be easier to control.

Strapless vs Harness

Can't make up your mind between a strapless strap-on and a strapping-on kit? Take a moment to mull it over before committing.

Strapless strap-ons provide pleasure for both partners and can feel more intimate, as there are no straps in the way. However, there is a learning curve when using a strapless strap on as they can be difficult to hold in the vagina, and can take some strong vaginal muscles to keep secure! If you’re wondering about how to secure a strapless strap on, you can check out our dedicated guide on how to use a strapless strap on for detailed information.

A strap-on with a harness offers more stability and can also look visibly sexy with its straps and buckles against the skin, but it offers little to no physical stimulation for the wearer. It can also feel less intimate with the straps between you and takes time to put on!

How do strapless strap-ons work?

Feeling a bit lost with all this talk of strapless strap-ons, bulbs, and shafts? Don't worry, you're not alone! These toys can be tricky to grasp, but don't fret - I'll explain it all right here.

Get ready for hands-free thrusting pleasure with our Best Strapless Strap-on Dildos! Simply insert the bulb into your vagina and hold it in place by flexing those pelvic floor muscles. For some extra support, consider using a harness, so you can focus on the fun and not the fatigue.

Once the strapless strap-on is secure, you can experiment with using the other end for vaginal or anal play, or even try out strap-on oral sex!

The bulb

Rocking a bulb like a saddle, this versatile toy is also known as a pony. Worn inside the vagina, its curve and bulbed shape keep it in place while delivering thrilling g-spot stimulation. And for extra fun, some bulbs even have a vibrating option. With a variety of shapes to choose from, there's a perfect fit for every body.

The shaft

Let's talk about the part that does the penetrating for your partner. As with all dildos, there's plenty of options for the shaft, from different sizes to unique designs. You can even choose between a realistic or non-phallic look. Some come with fun textures for added pleasure, and others have vibrations for a little extra oomph!

Bullet vibrator and clitoral stimulator

Some models come with a handy bullet vibrator that easily slides into the base, while others have built-in vibrations and even remote control options. The possibilities for pleasure are endless!

One thing you'll notice is a nifty bump or texture pad for some extra clitoral fun, although getting it in the perfect spot can be a bit tricky. (!!!!)

Types of strapless strap-ons

Get ready to explore the various types of harness-free dildos so you can find your perfect match!

Posable/adjustable strapless strap-ons

Easily adjust the angle of your strapless strap-on to find the perfect fit for any position - no harness needed! Playfully position the pony and shaft for maximum satisfaction in all sorts of wild and wacky ways.

Vibrating strapless strap-ons

Want some extra buzz with your strap-on play? Our strapless strap-ons offer the option of a detachable bullet or built-in motors for targeted vibrations in the shaft or bulb. It's double the pleasure and double the fun!

Realistic strapless strap-ons

Unleash your inner gender bender with these strap-ons that have a realistic design and lifelike textural details. Perfect for trans-males looking to ease gender dysphoria, these strap-ons will have you feeling like the real deal.

Rabbit-style strapless strap-ons

These strap-ons have a special surprise - rabbit ears that give the wearer extra stimulation! Because let's face it, sometimes the bulb just isn't enough to get the job done.

Strapless Strap-on vs Double Dildo: What's the Difference?

Both of these fabulously phallic toys showcase dual ends and are capable of being utilized for vaginal and anal insertion. However, there are crucial distinctions in the construction and application of strapless dildos versus double dildos, and the one you choose ultimately depends on your desired method of use!

Strapless strap-ons or harness free strap-ons

Smaller bulb for the wearer + regular shaft for the receiver

Suited to vaginal and anal penetration, including pegging

Tend to be more rigid and posable

Can be vibrating or non-vibrating

Double-ended dildos or double dongs

Can be used for solo pleasure

Good for solo double penetration

Can be used for couple play but works better for vaginal penetration

Can be long and flexible or rigid and U-shaped

Most are non-vibrating

Do strapless strap-ons actually stay in?

Even though these strapless strap-ons don't require a harness, figuring out how to use them can be a challenge for many. Considering the physical aspects, it makes sense - the muscles in your vagina and anus are powerful, and the wearer usually has the smaller end, making it easier to slip out. (But don't worry, it's all part of the fun!)

The problem with strapless strap-ons

The vagina's enchanting properties result in increased lubrication with arousal. When combined with the forces of gravity, this can make things tricky. Even with daily kegel "CrossFit" sessions, you may still face some slip-ups!

Experience even more excitement with your strapless dildo during anal play! While the vagina may not stand a chance against those powerful sphincter muscles, it only adds to the thrill.

The solution

Keep your strapless strap-on in place and have a good range of movement with an open o-ring and a strap-on harness. No more slipping and sliding!

What are the benefits of a strapless strap on?

"Discover why strapless strap-ons are a must-have for every sex toy collection! From their growing popularity to their versatility in pegging, get ready to fall head over heels (or should we say, hips over hips) for these harness-free fun tools."

Enhanced intimacy

While traditional strapless strap-ons may need a harness or specialized clothing, our harness-free option provides a closer and more personal encounter. Both partners can enjoy the unique sensations of the dildo moving inside each other, resulting in a deeper connection.

Dual stimulation

Experience a whole new level of pleasure with a harness-free strap-on that delivers intense sensations to both of you, through the shaft, the bulb, and even added vibrations!

More realistic

Become one with the dils (or rather, be one with the dils) and truly embody your desired role with this harness-free strap-on. Perfect for those in need of a little gender-bending fun or seeking a more authentic experience, this versatile toy is sure to please!

Tips for using your strapless strap-on

Forget about the struggles of a strapless strap-on - here's how to keep it secure and satisfy both you and your partner!

Try it out solo first

For ultimate fun and freedom, try wearing the strapless strap-on on your own first - get a feel for using your pelvic floor muscles to keep it in place while you get your groove on!

Use lube wisely

When it comes to lube, I'm usually all for more, but with this strapless strap-on, less can be more - only use a small amount, if needed, on the wearer's bulb. We don't want to make it too easy for the bulb to slip out!

Choose your positions wisely

Featuring unique riding and grinding positions that keep the dildo securely in place, our strapless strap-on is perfect for exploring new levels of pleasure. Discover the best strapless strap-on sex positions in our dedicated section!

Best strapless strap-on sex positions

Don't let your strapless strap-on slip out during vigorous thrusting! Try out these sex positions to keep better control, whether you're going for anal or vaginal fun.

Cowgirl

Cowgirl

Having the receiving partner ride the dildo requires less movement from the wearer and helps the strapless strap-on stay in place.

Spooning

Spooning

This cuddly, cosy, intimate position is also great for strapless strap-ons as you are rocking together rather than thrusting.

Missionary

Missionary

Another classic sex position that works really well with a strapless strap-on!

A guide to strapless strap-on materials

When selecting a strapless strap-on, size and style matter, but don't forget about the material - it can affect performance and safety! Keep an eye out for these materials and steer clear of others.

Safe materials

Silicone — this is the most popular material because it feels soft and body safe! It can be firm or soft, depending on the strapless strap-on.

ABS plastic, is also body-safe, but many people find the rigidity uncomfortable in a strapless strap-on.

Materials to avoid

As your strapless strap-on is being shared and coming into contact with very sensitive, absorbent areas you should avoid materials that are porous and/or contain harmful substances such as:

TPE/TPR

Jelly

Rubber

PVC

Soft plastics

Silicone blends

How to Use a Strapless Strap On

Let's talk about strapless strap-ons - the multi-talented sex toy! The only prerequisite is a vulva, but other than that, the possibilities are endless. Let's get creative with some potential uses:

Lesbian sex

Wear the strap on for penetrating your partner vaginally or anally, and amp things up with additional toys like bullet vibrators (cuz why not?).

Pegging

Swap traditional sex roles with pegging! The strapping partner will delight in penetrating the recipient anally, using either a pegging strap-on or a strapless strap-on for added pleasure. Shake things up with this exciting twist on heterosexual play.

Masturbation

"Ditch the harness and have some hands-free fun with our Best Strapless Strap-on Dildos! Use one end for penetration and the other as a handle for ultimate control. It's like having your own personal lever - talk about a game changer!"

Imitating oral sex

As a strap-on is the closest you can get to having a penis (if you don't have one), it's perfect for imitating oral sex or even using it for self-pleasure. This creates a visually stimulating experience for both partners!

How to clean a strapless strap-on

Don't forget to keep your strapless strap-on squeaky clean for you and your boo! Remember to read the manufacturer's instructions and make sure to keep any electrical parts dry (unless the toy is waterproof - duh!). Most strapless strap-ons are made of silicone, so just wash 'em with some soap and water. Easy peasy!