I'm 39 and I had the best sex of my life with my wife
It's weird that I write this, but on Saturday night I had the best sex ever with my wife, and it's gotten me nervous on how to repeat it. For context, I'm with my wife since we were 17, and we have a fine sex life. Sometimes we go through dry spells, other times we have sex quite often, things change naturally after all these years.
Anyway, we are going through a dry spell the last few months, having sex once or twice a month. But we got frisky when we laid on bed on Saturday. We didn't do anything different than usual, I got her close with my fingers, she asked me to go inside her. I did and after a few thrusts I felt like a was about to orgasm, so I pulled out to prolong it a little bit. But she was very close and asked me to continue, so after a few seconds I did, and then it happened; I didn't orgasm.
Usually I last something between 2 to 10 minutes. When I was younger I could keep going without any refraction period but this is not happening anymore. It's not a problem for us, we enjoy sex and she orgmasms almost every time. When I don't want to finish I pull out for a little bit to cool down but this breaks our enjoyment. Or other times I pull myself from the moment and try to think of unrelated stuff like work to prolong it.
But not this time. This time I was fully there, mind and body, and I didn't pull out for almost an hour. We were both amazed and enjoyed it very much. She had 4 orgasms, the most she's ever had in a row. We changed positions many times, we alternated between slow, pationate and sweet talking, to hard, rough and dirty talking, we even laughed at disbelief on the situation. But I was feeling like I was close to orgasm but I wouldn't unless I wanted to. And I didn't want to as we were having so much fun.
And I decided to finish when we heard our son rolling in his bed, and I thought he might get up.
Anyway, we spend the whole Sunday giggling at each other and now I'm wondering how the fuck I can match that performance again. Any advice?