Are boners really that bad

Oct 16, 2025

cuipingcheng

Okay so I have this issue with my girlfriend. I find her really really attractive, and I will more often than not get a boner whenever we're cuddling, kissing, sometimes even mild things like brushing my leg will give me one. The issue is: she doesn't have that high of a libido and she doesn't seem to like it that much. She will scold with the argument that I "have to make everything sexual" and that she feels like I'm giving her a guilt trip because she knows that I want to have sex but she doesn't.

Now, I've asked her before if it's that she doesn't find me attractive or if it's that the sex is bad, and it's not either of these. Now I know I'm not ugly either and I've had some sexual partners before that give me some benchmarking to know I'm not bad at sex either. I'm her first serious boyfriend and first sexual partner now dating for about 6 years.

Is this normal behavior? Are boners really that annoying?

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We don't really have control over it. My girlfriend just laughs and I say that my body is just being honest.

After 10 years with the wifey, I still get boners all the time. It is normal.

Married 15 and I sleep all the way across the bed. If I touch him he will pop a boner. Oh and a belly rub is foreplay.

After 33 years of marriage and together 39, my wife knows this will still happen if she tries to cuddle me in the middle of the night or touches me too long or just the right way. That's how I know i found the right one. She will just look at me and say "put that thing away" and chuckle if she isn't in the mood or doesn't have time (which isn't that often).

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Are boners really that bad

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