How can i reset my clit sensitivity??

Oct 08, 2025

cuipingcheng

**** I meant how long will it take to reset it ****

Edit: It's sad i have to say this, but stop messaging me coming onto me. It's weird.

26f.

I JUST let someone else touch me for the first time in my life a few weeks ago. I've gotten with other people and pleasured them, but l've never let anyone touch me due to my past. I let this person go down on me and finger me for 42 minutes. There was no fear or anxiety, i could easily say no and they would stop immediately if i asked them to. (I didn't ask them to.) | FELT NOTHING. It was the equivalent to me getting my elbow licked and bladder stimulated for 42 minutes. I felt more on my boobs and i felt more pleasuring them. I want to feel something when i receive. I use my vibrator A LOT. Or used. I broke it (i probably used it too much HAHA). I'm extremely desensitized. How long without touching myself will I need to wait to get sensation? I barely feel fingers, it always has to be a vibrator on its highest setting.

Top Comments:

Hold the clit for ten seconds until it starts blinking blue.

Get rid of your vibrator and wait a while. Its going to take a bit depending on how much and how hard you used it. See a Dr if need be also.

I'm a man so take this with a grain of salt, but I masterbated a lot when I was depressed last year. I watched too much porn also. Sex became blah from emotional dappening so it was easier to just take care of business and get back to my self loathing depression. Porn desensitized me where I couldn't even get excited without visual and physical stimulation. I used to look at my partner and get hard. The sight of her did nothing for me. I took a break from hard stimulation and tried practicing mental and gentle simulation without orgasming for weeks. It helped a lot. Maybe try practicing gentle stimulation with your fingers and get your head and imagination in a sexual place. Give it a few weeks without orgasming. Or maybe only orgasm once a week but practice it everyday.

you have the lady equivalent of "death grip". The only real solution is to stop using the vibe for like a few days maybe up to a week.

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