My boyfriend has had some sexual awakening since proposing and I can’t handle it
Hey!
So my fiancée[33/M] and I [27/F]got engaged a few months ago and ever since then he's been on some new shit.
Our sex life wasn't that busy beforehand. Maybe once a month. But now he wants it almost everyday. He's asking for things that have never come up - role play, cosplay, public washrooms, spending a whole day in bed having sex, more BJs, he wants me to slap him while doing it?
These things have never come up before. I'm trying to keep up but it's very overwhelming. And he respects my boundaries (would never force anything) but he loves to talk about it and be insistent. I'm not sure what to do. Has anyone experienced this before? Will it subside? I don't know if I can do all this.
Top Comments:
Talk to him about it? Y'all are getting married you need to be able to communicate.
From once a month to everyday is a wild jump. Make sure you are compatible before marrying.
Time to have some hard conversations.
Which you should be doing anyway as part of being engaged and building towards marriage.
I dont know you and i have only like 3 sentences about your relationship but heres my conspiracy theory:
He was never happy with once per month (that seems pretty below average for your age group especially) and now that youre engaged he is trying to make sure your compatible by upping the amount in an extreme way.
