Had sex instead of helping his mom and now she isn’t a big fan of me
22F dating a 23M. Had holiday over their house, good time. Told his mom I would help her clean after as a good gesture. Ended up getting side tracked and having sex with my bf when the last few guests were gonna leave so I didn't help her and ended up losing track of time to have sex with him which he initiated because he was horny. I was like not really at first cause he had family downstairs, so I guess his mom walked past his room and heard something because she later made a comment you and that gf of yours were too busy having sex to help. So I kinda looked bad in front of her and I feel super bad, she def hates me now what do I do?
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There aren't any time machines yet, so I'd just own it. "I'm sorry that I didn't help you clean up, as I promised. I made a bad decision, and I will do better in future."
Don't just say it—show it! If you're a houseguest, get her her coffee or juice or whatever at breakfast, help unload the dishwasher, strip your bed & take the sheets to the laundry room, always wipe up any splatters around the bathroom sink….Just relieve as much of the burden of having company as you can.
You said you were going to help and you didn't. You need to apologise for that. Don't use your bf as an excuse just because he was horny. Don't hide behind that. You made a bad decision but it is what it is. And your bf also needs to keep it in his pants. There is a time and place for sex and is not really when guests are still there... That being said we all were young at some point and I think some understanding and leniency can/should be given cause you are young, horny and hopefully in love. But a promise is a promise and you broke your word. Don't do that unless for a very good reasons. Having sex in this situation wasn't one of them.
Yikes yall couldn't wait til after doing the dishes? Ya that'd kinda piss me off and I'm not even a mom lol. Like if u say ur gonna do it , do it , not ur bf lmao. Like she likely did most of the cooking if it was at their house so usually the rule is the person who cooks doesn't have to clean so she might've had to do both and that would double suck esp after u told her u would but then bailed cuz yall couldn't keep it in ur pants for like 5 seconds lol . You know you can also start doing dishes on ur own too? Like you don't need to wait for her to hold your hand through it. I'd make that remark too ngl
