No more creampies because vagina feels icky afterwards

Oct 07, 2025

ZhouJordan

Ever since I (M39) got a vasectomy a couple of months ago, my wife (F39) and I have been enjoying PIV sex without condoms, or so I thought. The other day she told me that while she does acknowledge the benefits, she actually doesn't like the feeling in her vagina after I've come inside her. She can't pinpoint anything specifically, but she feels it throws off her pH, and says the cum just takes too long to drip out of her.

I've been pulling out since that day, and to be honest, it's been immensely disappointing for me. The bond we shared for these few months felt like something special, and pulling out, or even using a condom, just isn't the same. I feel let down and have been asking myself why I went through the trouble of getting a vasectomy for this.

That said, this is obviously not her fault, she's 100% right to set her boundaries, I love her and I would never pressure her or anything. I would really like to improve this situation for both of us though, so I'm wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation (on either side)?

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I've found that peeing immediately after and using two fingers to "scoop" stuff out while spraying my bidet at myself + using my pH soap is the answer for me. No drip later, no smell, pH is great.

It really does change herself downstairs for a few days. You're wet for ages.. either because it's dripping out or herself has gone into 'clean out' mode. It also smells different for a couple of days. I envy men's ability to just cum and wash off. The vagina has a process and I only allow cumming inside if I'm not going anywhere in the morning as I smell weird and am leaky/wet for the day. Not pleasant.

It can definitely throw off my PH if I do it too frequently, so I do ask my husband to pull out sometimes. I get BV pretty easily, so when I notice my scent is off I know I need to give my vag a break. But I also really like them on an emotional connection level. This might be worth discussing further and seeing if you can agree on if you need to pull out sometimes but if she can put up with the ick of it other times

With my ex, it really did throw off my pH - I started to stink down there and continued for a few weeks after the breakup. Frequent yeast infections, too. I didn't realize that's what was causing it. I don't think he would have been willing to stop if I'd asked.

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No more creampies because vagina feels icky afterwards

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