PSA: Don't have sex in changing rooms. (public sex)
I see it come up a lot when people talk about finding places to have sex in public., but I've worked changing rooms and here is why it's a dick move.
I know what you're doing. It's about as subtle as a teenage boy at a swimming pool, and everyone thinks they are getting away with it when in reality it can be for multiple reasons (not paid enough, social anxiety, actually don't care). This is a very sex positive sub Reddit, so it can be hard to remember that sex can make some people very uncomfortable and causing that discomfort to a stranger in public/at their place of work is really really rude.
It's not just me, there are kids and families and just other people too. All of the above applies to them, and the more people the more likely one of them is going to have a bad time with it. Also could be taking a room someone could need for it's intended purpose. But you go when it's slower it puts more pressure on the attendant.
What I don't know is the specifics. I don't know if you are full on having sex and wiping it on the clothes I'll later have to pick up. I don't know if she is going to swallow and leave no mess. I don't know what you did on that bench, and now I either have to get all up in that room to clean it, or let the little girl that comes after you sit on it to put on her pants. Sure, you might not be the rudest or messiest about it, but it's not like I know that.
You are making your kinks my problem without my consent or any of the others around you. Also, those rooms are filthy af.
And no, not getting caught isn't all that matters. It's about not putting others in a position they don't want to be in and that makes them uncomfortable. Definition of a dick move. Sure, say the odds of you getting caught are slim (not that every time people are caught they know about it.) you are determining for others that your pleasure is more important than the risks for making their day worse. Again, literally the definition of a dick move.
