Virgins take warning.
I (22 F) grew up in the US south in a ultraconservative religious household. Officially, sex outside marriage made Jesus weep. But also my aunt told me, "realistically," that sex is something women do to make men happy. It's not really fun for girls, it's one way to serve your husband, etc. So I never tried because 1) Jesus would weep and 2) it wouldn't be that good anyway so what's the point?
Went to college, changed my mind, left the church, etc. and decided to have sex with my boyfriend this week.
Oh. My. God. You fucking guys. I HAVE BEEN LIED TO MY ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE. Sex is supposed to be painful & difficult for ladies? BUT SEX IS GOOD!! Sex is so, so good.
I love it. I love rough sex. I love getting fucked hard-- it feels better than anything in the world. I love being on top, I love him being on top, I love doggy style, I love missionary, I love being fucked against the bed and the wall and the desk and the chair.
And I love giving head! It is not dirty or degrading at all. Gagging is minimal. Semen just tastes like slighly tangy mucus. Oral sex is about pleasure, and fun, and respect, and trust. He puts his most sensitive and fragile part into your mouth (full of teeth that could easily bite and hurt him), you show him you're grateful for the trust. And a dick in your mouth is the best way to start the day!
There's nothing ugly or degrading or shameful about sex. It's like the best parts of dancing and working out and laughing and making inside jokes, all combined. The physical sensations are beyond description, and you get to see the other person at their strongest and most beautiful. You get to share the innermost, most secret, most vulnerable part of yourself with another person-- and be celebrated. You can celebrate someone else's power without being hurt or diminished yourself.
I will never, ever stop having sex, and I will never, ever feel ashamed about it.
Virgins, take warning: sex is GOOD.
EDIT: Wow, this went up fast! To everyone who said "You made my day" (or variants thereof): awww, I'm glad! I was just real excited to share my discovery with something.
To everyone advising safe sex: Yes. Yes, absolutely. I'm on the pill and we're looking into an implant/IUD. There are no babies in my future.
To people who are like: "a guy wrote this/this is not realistic/FAKE NEWS." I had a good laugh, y'all are hilarious. Believe what you want, I guess.
EDIT 2: Thanks for the gold kind stranger!
