This really needs to be passed around

Oct 13, 2025

cuipingcheng

Women it's ok to make a move. If you're totally comfortable with a guy initiate sex, pull him in to kiss him, take his clothes off for him, kiss his body, throw him on the bed and sit on him, shove his face into your pussy when he eats you out. MEN WANT TO FEEL WANTED. There's nothing hotter and more assuring to a man's sexual confidence when he knows you really want him. It can feel depressing and even get boring when the guy always initiates it. To him it can feel like he isn't wanted and you're just letting him get off, remind him this is for both of you and you want him as much as he wants you. And I want to make it very clear I AM NOT shaming women, I understand you're shy, I'm bi and I've been with men too it can be intimidating. I just hope this message helps everyone have a better, healthier sex life.

Top Comments:

Even when sex is not the ultimate goal at that time.... Still give your man a hug when you walk past and he's busy... Give him a kiss or a quick smack a on the ass. It gets you down when the effort is one sided

When my boyfriend's doing homework or playing on the PC, I come up behind him, pull my top up (I am braless 99.9% of the time), lift my tit up and just plop it on his shoulder for some encouragement and support. "Hello, this is ITIT support, what can I help you with today?"

Also PSA: Let the guy be the little spoon sometimes. Girls get to feel protected and loved by being held like that all the time; not really fair that most guys don't get to feel that too!

I NEED my jetpack. How else will I zoom off into sweet dreams?