2023 App-Controlled Sex Toys for Couples in Long Distance Relationships

2023 App-Controlled Sex Toys for Couples in Long Distance Relationships

Apr 30, 2023

Jordan Zhou

Well, well, well... looks like you might find yourself in a long-distance relationship at some point in your life! Don't worry, it's not all bad - but it does come with some challenges. One of the biggest challenges is how to keep things hot and spicy between you and your partner without the ability to get hands-on. But fear not! There are plenty of ways to keep the passion alive, even from a distance. So let's get creative and find some fun solutions to this long-distance love problem!

long-distance relationship

Hey, hey! Texting steamy messages and swapping sexy pics can definitely get the blood pumping in a long-distance relationship. But have you heard of the wild world of app-controlled sex toys? It's called teledildonics (fancy word alert!), and it's all about long-distance pleasure that you and your partner can control from anywhere in the world. Imagine this: you're on a steamy video call with your lover, and they're using an app to control a vibrating prostate massager in your booty. They count down, turn up the dial, and boom - you're hitting the Big O while they watch it all go down on their screen. Not only can you feel more connected to your partner, but if you're into power play, teledildonic toys can add a whole new level of Dom/sub fun to your bedroom antics. So go ahead, give it a try - let the teledildonic adventures begin!

Let's be real - using a teledildonic sex toy might not completely replace the feeling of getting down and dirty with your partner in the flesh, but it's a damn good substitute. And hey, you can always have some solo fun with these toys to take your self-love game to new heights. Let's face it - if your partner has moved to another city, you might find yourself needing to take care of business a little more often than usual. But with a teledildonic toy in hand, you can bring some extra excitement and pleasure to your solo playtime. So go ahead, indulge in some long-distance lovin' - you won't regret it!

Hey there, lovebirds in long-distance relationships! Who says you have to wait for your next in-person rendezvous to get busy between the sheets? With the help of these 15 amazing sex toys, you can keep the spark alive and have some kinky fun with your partner no matter how many miles apart you are. So, are you ready to take your virtual intimacy to the next level? Check out our list and get ready to add some excitement to your LDR!

BEST BEGINNER VIBRATING BUTT PLUG

Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

Price of $50.99

PROS

+ Versatile shape

+ Comfortable to wear

CONS

- App interface could use some work

Go the "extra mile" with this App & Remote Controlled Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug! With nine classic remote vibrations, you can enjoy it alone or "long-distance" with your lover... with no distance restriction, you can have fun anytime, anywhere! Plus the app control lets you explore a variety of needs. Get ready to go the distance!

What do buyers say? 

So my husband was going to be away for 2 weeks and I wanted to surprise him. In addition to leaving a romantic card in his suitcase for each day he'd be gone, I left a note telling him that I'd secretly installed an app on his phone and what it was for. He thought it was a really fun and romantic way to stay connected in his absence. I told him the hours that I'd be wearing it and then he'd activate it randomly in that time frame... just make sure that you communicate to your loved one if you're going to be in an impromptu meeting, otherwise you'll risk being REALLY distracted lol.

It's a good quality toy, really well put together. The surface is smooth and it's not too big or too small. Quite a good heft to it as well.

We work from home and he's already said that he wants me to wear it during the day so he can witness my reactions as he secretely turns it on. It's first a shock, then a laugh, then a "no, I'm busy! I can't play right now!", then finally "well, if you insist..." lol.

Highly recommend for sure!

BEST ADVANCED VIBRATING BUTT PLUG

 Prostate Massager with 360° Rotating & Vibration

APP Control Prostate Massager with 360° Rotating & Vibration

Price of $59.99

PROS

+ Industry standard

+ Great for beginners

CONS

- Expensive

Leave your mundane sex life in the dust and upgrade to a luxury experience with this App & Remote Controlled Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug! Boasting an ergonomic design crafted with luxurious silicone material and rotational vibration and silence, this plug is the ultimate pleasure. Get ready to turn up the heat!

What do buyers say?

OK this was the first thing that ever way used by me. All I can say is WOW. This thing made me feel things I never felt before. The Quality and Sturdiness of the device is impressive. The connection to Bluetooth was one of the most painless I have ever experienced. The App works instantly and is very intuitive.
You get a lot of fun for your Money :-)

BEST LOVE EGG

Bluetooth Egg Style Stimulator

Adorime Panty Bullet Vibrator, Bluetooth Egg Style Stimulator

Price of $53.99

PROS

+ Stimulate the whole clitoral network

+ Intuitive app

CONS

- Expensive

Meet the Adorime Panty Bullet Vibrator, a Bluetooth egg-style stimulator that'll get your engine roaring! Control this powerful little buddy from anywhere with the remote app and enjoy unlimited vibration patterns available for download and sharing. Let your partner control the fun or keep it all to yourself - the choice is yours! Long-distance sizzlin' never felt so good!

What do buyers say?

All I can say is if u want to have fun with your lady have her put this in and and see how long she can maintain or if in the bedroom you can take her to another dimension with this little guy 9 modes one more intense than the other she will definitely love and how strong her big O is . All of them I should say good price fast delivery. Works excellent

BEST MALE MASTURBATOR

Penis Training Vibrator

Pulse Solo Lux - Male Masturbator Penis Training Vibrator with APP Control

Price of $29.99

PROS

+ Strong vibration

+ Comfortable fit

CONS

- Can be noisy

For a full-on thrill, Pulse Solo Lux has got you covered. Uniquely designed for a comfortable hug and nine powerful vibration modes, this toy provides an out-of-this-world experience. Plus, with APP control, you can get an intimate connection with your partner even in different places! Not to mention the special ribbed silicone that brings an extra special something to your solo playtime. Get ready for a wild ride!

What do buyers say?

I have to say I was excited to buy this for my husband and hoped he would enjoy "toying" around with this. He has stated it does not disappoint.

The size is perfect for his average sized penis and once aroused fits snugly but not too tight. He has found that with the use of either lotion or lube it easily slides and yet is tight enough for pleasure to be had. We love the fact that with the help of the APP "I" can be in on his solo action as well. I can cause him to have various sensations from the device which keeps him guessing.

Additionally, he has found that using this while also using a dildo has given him some of the greatest pleasure ( orgasms ) he has had with multiple stimulations happening.

It is extremely easy to clean and charging is a breeze with the magnetic charging port. This also makes it nice to be use in the shower.

We definitely recommend that those looking to enhance their solo or otherwise time consider buy one as well. A great product for a great price.

BEST PANTY VIBRATOR

Desire Luxury Rechargeable Panty Vibrator

Desire Luxury Rechargeable App-Controlled Panty Vibrator

Price of $52.99

PROS

+ Powerful-yet-quiet motor

+ Great design

CONS

- Can be a bit difficult to connect to phones

The Desire Luxury Rechargeable App-Controlled Panty Vibrator is here to get you in the groove! Use the app interactive mode to get it poppin with your partner, no matter where they are. And with 10 intense toy settings and 9 app vibes, this bad mama jama will take you to places you've never been! Its slim, ergonomic design is ultra-thin and practically silent, perfect for those wild outdoor adventures!

What do buyers say?

This little vibrator might be exactly what you and your partner are looking for... I bought it wanting to have some fun in public or when my boyfriend is back at his own house and for him to still be able to let him control it. Let me just say I was not disappointed, it is definitely strong enough if you are someone who has bit of Endurance when it comes to vibrators. Which is definitely something I was worried about, but, no Sir, this thing has got you covered or well more accurately dripping. Not to mention all the fun features this thing has! I found the music one to be the most entertaining but not enough to get the job done... if you are looking for a quiet toy sadly this isn't the one for you... but if you are planning on taking it to a loud or busy place you should be just fine. However I'll say if your plan is to take this somewhere quiet and public think again. It's not the quietest toy but then again nether will the person who is wearing it.

BEST WEARABLE VIBRATOR

Vector - Vibrating & Wiggling Wearable Vibrator

Vector - APP Controlled Vibrating & Wiggling Wearable Vibrator

Price of $49.99

PROS

+ Offers internal and external stimulation at the same time

+ Adjustable fit

CONS

- Expensive

Add a bit of extra fun to your night with the Vector - APP Controlled Vibrating & Wiggling Wearable Vibrator! With its triple stimulation, multiple fun modes, fully-fitted design, and whisper-quiet technology, this vibey device will be sure to give you a good time. Plus, with sweet interaction that can be completely controlled through your phone, you don't need to worry about taking your hands away from the fun! Wiggle it, vibrate it, do whatever you want - it's totally up to you!

What do buyers say?

Bought it for my wife and she said this: The product is great, good speeds and variations. It fits well and doesn't cause uncomfortable pinching or pressures while sitting, walking, or otherwise moving about. Really nice combining a thrust and pulse setting to hit things in different rhythms. This toy is awesome and I'm very happy with it. The only thing they should work on it is the sound, it should be more quiet. I would definitely buy it again and I strongly recommend!

BEST PROSTATE MASSAGER

Pineapple Man - 360° Rotating Prostate Massager

Pineapple Man - 360° Rotating Prostate Massager Anal Vibrator

Price of $41.99

PROS

+ Features both internal and external vibrations for maximum pleasure

+ Very quiet

CONS

- Expensive

Enjoy incredible stimulation with the Pineapple Man - 360° Rotating Prostate Massager Anal Vibrator! This unique toy offers a host of smart features, like long-distance mobile app control, rotating and vibrating modes, and a 360° head rotation, giving you an out-of-this-world experience. Made with silky smooth silicone, this anal plug is super safe and adds an extra layer of pleasure with its 9 rotating and vibrating modes. Let your wild side run free with the Pineapple Man!

What do buyers say?

This is the best prostate toy I have ever received. It is different from other telescopic toys, it is 360°rotatable, it can stimulate the prostate very well and make people orgasm easily. It has so many spin modes that there is something for everyone. It can also be remotely controlled by APP, even if my partner is not with me, we can still play this toy together. Oh that's awesome, I love this prostate toy so much.

BEST VIBRATING COCK RING

Robbie - Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

Robbie - App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

Price of $38.99

PROS

+ Wear it your way for enticing play in public or in private

+ Explore 3 speeds and 9 patterns, or connect to the app for precision control

CONS

- A bit bulky

Unlock thrilling shareable pleasure with Robbie, the app-controlled rechargeable vibrating cock ring! Enjoy intimate interactive play with your partner from anywhere, and explore 3 speeds and 9 patterns of vibration, or get creative and craft your own unique sensations with the app. Wear it your way for perfectly customized pleasure in public or private - Robbie's here for as much or as little naughty fun as you desire!

What do buyers say?

The device is comfortable and works well. I have several devices by the same company and I like that the app interface allows me to have them all easily accessible. It works well, has a good battery life, is easy to use, and comfortable. I would recommend this to others!

BEST CUSTOMIZABLE VIBRATOR

Wiggling Wearable Vibrator Mimic Finger

Wiggling Wearable Vibrator Mimic Finger - App Remote Control

Price of $57.99

PROS

+ Customizable shape

+ Super powerful vibrations

CONS

- Expensive

Discover maximum pleasure with the Wiggling Wearable Vibrator Mimic Finger. Control it with your app, then customize up to 9*9 vibration modes, patterns, and rhythms. Long-distance mode lets your partner control your experience from afar, making distance no obstacle to your pleasure. Its ergonomic design and smooth silicone make it suitable for most people and safely sensual. Vibration no longer had a limit - give your libido a shake!

What do buyers say?

My Girlfriend loves having it when we are in long distance! The charge lasts a long time, and it makes it easy and makes our video calls more enjoyable.

BEST DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY

Wearable Thrusting Butterfly Panties Vibrator

Wearable Thrusting Butterfly Panties Vibrator with APP Remote Control

Price of $59.99

PROS

+ Powerful motor

+ Easy to connect to phone

CONS

- Expensive

Enjoy a new level of pleasure with the Wearable Thrusting Butterfly Panties Vibrator! Its 9 vibrating & 9 thrusting modes, along with its ergonomic design, provide you with sensual stimulation in all the right spots - clitoris, G-spot, perineum, anus, nipples & more. Control it with buttons, remote (up to 33ft) or app (for distant lovers), and have moist fun in the bath or shower (it's IPX6 waterproof). Plus, it's USB-rechargeable for endless fun and comes in discreet packaging. Get ready for toe-curling joy!

What do buyers say?

Fantastic and orgasmic, this vibrator hit the spot just right! I love how it has a tiny and discreet remote control that gives either yourself or someone else complete control over what you're feeling. It features both a vibrating motion, and a thrusting motion, both of which have various speeds and loops. The texture is soft and smooth, and extremely easy to clean. The vibe itself is powered by USB, although the control does need two large pill batteries. The packaging is beautiful, and I'm actually keeping it for other keepsakes. The main complaint that I have is that it thrusts so wonderfully, sometimes it doesn't want to stay inside! Using it with a pair of your favorite panties and pants does the trick though.

GREAT Butterfly Vibrator

Invisible Quiet Butterfly Panty Vibrator with Magnetic Clip

APP Control Invisible Quiet Butterfly Panty Vibrator with Magnetic Clip

Price of $55.99

PROS

+ Easily connects to phone

+ Strong stimulation

CONS

- Expensive

Experience uninterruptible pleasure with the APP Control Invisible Quiet Butterfly Panty Vibrator! Attach the lightweight and silent vibrator with its magnetic clip and enjoy multiple stimulation and continuous enjoyment from the APP remote control that starts the fun games! No worries, with its strong magnetic design, it's sure to stay put. Vibration goals, achieved!

What do buyers say?

We haven't technically tried it out together anywhere yet, but it turns on, the standard remote works, and not only was the app easy to connect to, but I haven't had any problems using it as a control.

We all know size kinda matters, especially if it's something you plan to move around with while it's shoved between your legs. This one is the perfect size to not feel like you have "walk around it" imo, and the magnet securing clip is very strong. I've included a few household items in my review pics so you can get a better sense of the size and see for yourself if that's a size you'd prefer.

I've also included a comparison to another highly rated popular item in the same category in case you're trying to decide between the two like I was. Just got my tax return though so I figured "what the hell, let's get both!" The other one is much too big for me, so it'll be a stay-at-home toy xD

As far as sound goes it's not very loud at all. That being said, if you're in a quieter location like a cafe, or the library, on a hike with others, or even during the quiet part of a movie at the theatre I wouldn't recommend using this, you still might turn some heads. Places I think this would be sexy and discreet: road trips, outdoor events, arcades, malls, county fairs etc...

Functionality seems on par for the rest of the generic vibrators on the market. Settings/modes are similar to everything else out there, nothing super special but it gets the job done and if you're sensitive like me and find most vibrator modes too strong you still have options ;)

Seems great so far! I'll update this if needed but I don't foresee there being any problems!

MOST UNIQUE TOY

Rose Stimulator Thrusting Anal Vibrator

APP Control Rose Stimulator Thrusting Anal Vibrator

Price of $55.99

PROS

+ Fun to make

+ Creates a realistic replica

CONS

- Expensive

Introducing the APP Control Rose Stimulator Thrusting Anal Vibrator! Wet your beak with 9 default modes, and use the app or remote control to switch up the vibration—go for a wild ride solo, or make it a movie night with couples play. Plus, the soft, rose-shaped design will make sure your off-key love-song stays romantic and comfortable!

What do buyers say?

... if you're thinking about getting it...just get it!! It feels amazing and had me shaking after the first use. Great vibrations even greater thrusting and it's super cute, a must have!!

BEST Cowgirl Premium SEX Vibrator

Curve-Fitting 6.8” Seat Pad Vibrator

APP Remote Control Curve-Fitting 6.8” Seat Pad Vibrator

Price of $46.99

PROS

+ Extremely powerful, easy-to-adjust motor

+ Comfortable, saddle-shaped design

CONS

- Expensive

Experience thrilling dual stimulation and the ultimate riding pleasure with the APP Remote Control Curve-Fitting 6.8” Seat Pad Vibrator! Connect your exclusive toy via Bluetooth, control it with the remote or use the APP with 9+9 versatile modes. Unleash new heights of pleasure with the two independent motors and the specially-designed curves that "hump" your most sensitive spots. Just sit, close your eyes and enjoy the ride!

What do buyers say?

I'm speechless right now!! This is amazing. If I had to buy it again I would most definitely do it. Not only does it have a remote but you can control it from your phone. Really enjoyed this and would recommend this to anyone!??

GREAT COCK RING FOR LONG DISTANCE COUPLES

Penis Enlargers Erect Support Ring

Penis Enlargers Erect Support Ring with APP Control

Price of $35.99

PROS

+ Very interactive experience

+ Easy to sync to phone

CONS

- Expensive

Unlock your full potential with this penis enlarger erect support ring featuring ergonomic keel design and adjustable fixed positions, crafted from durable, odorless silicone and USB rechargeable, with three powerful and ultra-silent motors plus 9x9 vibration modes connected to the app for pleasure and performance you can take to the next level!

What do buyers say?

The experience of this toy is amazing. It is remote control compatible so your partner can control. You can also create your own vibrations for the toy. Great orgasm and fun use during sex.

GREAT Pantie Vibrator For Long Distance Couples

Pantie Massager with 10 Classic Vibration Modes

APP Remote Control Pantie Massager with 10 Classic Vibration Modes

Price of $45.99

PROS

+ Waterproof

+ 1-year warranty

CONS

- Expensive

Playful pleasure is at your fingertips with this APP Remote Control Pantie Massager! With its 2 in 1 wearable design & 10 classic vibration modes, wave goodbye to boring bedroom nights and experience thrilling double pleasure on-the-move. Plus, control it from your phone with long-distance app control - have fun even when your honey is a thousand miles away! Make every night a party night with this discreet, bluetooth-enabled panty massager. Sparks ahoy!

What do buyers say?

Great product with plenty of power. My wife loves the double vibrations. Would highly recommend this product.