Position of the Week: The Intimate Exchange
Lovers together, stripped down, touching and teasing and moaning... This position delivers hot-n-heavy, sizzling intimacy, letting the passion build between you rather than skipping straight to penetration. Let's turn the temperature all the way up.
How?
If you're feeling saucy, grab some sexy lingerie and tell your lover to get comfy and wait for you. Now, one partner sits down ā on the bed, floor, or couch ā with legs slightly open.
The other partner kneels right in front, so you can enjoy each other's bodies on display; it's up to you whether you're both naked or wearing something revealing... Exchange compliments, kisses, and teasing strokes to the chest or inner thighs.
This is mutual masturbation with a peep-show twist: think of it as a spicy two-way mirror where you both get a front-row seat to each other's pleasure. Face-to-face, body-to-body, and seriously hot.
Why?
Got an inner diva? Perform a sexy little lap dance for your lover as you get their attention (and their pulse racing). If you're into connection and eye contact (or just like looking hot while getting off), this one's for you.
You're close enough to feel each other breathe, see every expression, and read every little moan. The seated partner can guide the pace with a gentle hand on their lover's booty, while the kneeling partner gets a full view of their partner's face ā and maybe even a little self-touch show.
Make it even easier
Knees not vibing with the whole ākneeling on the floorā thing? Totally fair. Make it easier by kneeling on a soft cushion or folded blanket instead. Or bring the whole show to the couch or edge of the bed so no one has to kneel at all.
And remember that positions are meant to be adjusted ā this works sitting legs out, teddy-bear style on your butt too.
Make it even better
Experiment with pressure as you pull your lover close. Switch from slow, gentle to strokes to hands-on squeezes to show how much you want them.
Bring a bullet vibe to gently tease your partner's inner labia, clitoris, or along the sensitive underside of the shaft of the penis. Dab flavoured lube on their nips and give enthusiastic licks. Slither down to the ground, pulling aside their underwear, and get ready to lick more lube from their sweetest parts.
Make it even kinkier
Power exchange is at the heart of kinky play, so take this steamy position a step further by trying edging. The partner in control can use slow, teasing strokes ā just enough to build arousal without tipping over the edge.
Watch your lover's reactions, sync your pace, and pause right before climax to let the heat build to almost unbearable heights. Keep your eyes locked on your lover while you pause, letting the orgasm subside slightly. Then start teasing them again, repeatedly bringing them close without letting them come.
You're not just masturbating together, you're guiding each other's pleasure. Ride the waves of near orgasm until you can't hold back any longer...