A tip for those who are shy about initiating
Another post about being woken up with sex reminded me of a thing I used to do when I was young and too timid to initiate and thought it may help someone else. We agreed on me wearing an "indicator" that I was DTF. When I was wearing a certain scrunchie in my hair that was his green light. It was actually a lot of fun because I'd wear it when we'd go shopping, to family events, etc and it drove him crazy! Sometimes I'd put it on after he went to sleep and he would wake up to seeing it, granting consent for the "alarm cock" as we call it.
I hadn't thought of this in a long time and I may just start it up again for fun! 😉
Top Comments:
How sexy! Initiating can be hard because sometimes you can't clearly read your partner. Sometimes their libido is high sometimes low and at times non existent! I'd love to initiate more with my partner but he's definitely a hard read at times. Luckily he initiates without fail when the mood strikes and it's a treat every time! Very good suggestion OP!
This is absolutely how it is with me and my partner. I'm definitely gonna try this too.
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This. How has no one mentioned this yet, so underrated. This whole post is brilliant
