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Am I a fuckboy for preparing for sex?

Oct 07, 2025

ZhouJordan

I'm a 44 year old male and two years ago I lost my wife. I haven't dated in 15 years. A few weeks ago I decided to get out there again and start dating so I did my research and I think I was thoroughly prepared.

I had my first date last night. Dinner, the conversation was amazing. She invited me back to her place and I accepted.

Now part of preparing for the date is I made sure I trimmed my body hair including pubic hair. I also popped a breath mint as we went to the car. I also prepared a small ziplock bag with condoms, lube and wipes so if we had sex I would be prepared.

We were making out when she undressed me. I then took out my little zip lock bag. She asked what was it and I showed her the bags contents. Her mood totally changed and she became angry. She told me I was giving her "fuckboy vibes." I asked her why. She said something like "Your whole vibe. Body, manscaping, cologne, breath mints, "fuckboy pouch." I quickly left.

I'm dejected as I was just trying to give a good first impression and be prepared and well groomed.

Any help would be much appreciated.

Top Comments:

Fuck boys don't go around with cute little ziplock bags Awwwwww. Did she know your situation and that it was your first date in a long time?
44 years old, hasn't dated in 15 years, lost his wife two years ago... That's, like, the furthest thing from a fuckboy. A fuckboy would go out for the sole purpose of ending up in bed with someone. A fuckboy would lie and make false promises to manipulate someone into having sex with them. A fuckboy would push for a yes when they get an "I don't know..." You don't sound like a fuckboy; you sound like someone who takes care of himself and who wants to be prepared. There's nothing wrong with that, and she's crazy for getting mad at a guy who practices good hygiene. They're far rarer than anyone likes to admit, unfortunately. It sounds like you dodged a bullet. Anyone who can't appreciate the effort doesn't deserve it.
You did fine. It's good to be prepared. She overreacted and was unkind. I'm sure if you were unkempt and unprepared she would have been unkind about that too. Just be grateful she showed you her reality before and not after.
She was seeking the feeling of "spontaneous", "unprepared" sex. You were seeking the feeling of conscientiously prepared sex. Different people have different wants and needs. Nothing wrong with that. Just keep on searching for someone who aligns better with you. Also, if someone called me a fuckboy, I would not be sure whether I'd take that as an insult or a compliment.
I havent dated in 11 years as I am married 😅 but if I went on a first date and I wanted sex with them, and they pulled out the bag, I would be happy that they were prepared. Imagine getting all worked up and finding out you have no protection. What a mood killer! Obviously not all women are going to be the same as me. That is just my opinion! I don't think it gives off "fuck boy" vibes. I think it gives off adult and mature vibes. You came prepared!

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