bf said he just couldn’t stop when I asked him to.
Is it bad if during sex it got too intense for me and i asked him to stop multiple times and he didn't? He said just a few more minutes and he'll be done. After 2-3 minutes I asked him if we could stop and he again said just few more minutes and it happened till he was satisfied. I told him later that I asked him to stop but he said it wasn't physically possible for him to do that? Is it bad or am I just overreacting? Blowing things way out of proportion? I was on the verge of crying I had tears in my eyes it was way too much for me but I don't know if what he did is actually wrong? He didn't slow down either he just did it the way he wanted to? It was my first time.
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I'm sorry OP. He was COMPLETELY Capable of stopping. He didn't want to.
As a guy, can confirm. He ABSOLUTELY could have stopped. It's not like you put a quarter in the merry-go-round and it keeps going until the timer runs out. OP, I'm sorry that your first time was with someone who raped you, but that's exactly what it was once you asked him to stop (multiple times no less) and he kept going. I promise you not all guys are like that and it can absolutely be a lot better and not overwhelming.
And he didn't care. I'm so sorry this happened to you. He could have stopped - but he had no consideration of you or your feelings.
Agreed. This is sexual assault...
