I gave my boyfriend my first blowjob and now I’m confused.
I (f,24) gave my first ever boyfriend (m,23) my first blowjob. We have been going really slow and I can't thank him enough for it. This week we decided to have sex but he couldn't penetrate because I was way too tight. I felt really bad and decided to suck him. I think I did a pretty good job because he said he can't believe it's my first time but now I feel like that's all I'm good for? He did nothing to make me feel that way, and I really enjoyed — like really enjoyed doing what I did but what if he starts looking at me like I'm a slut? Would he be coming to me only because I'm going to pleasure him? My mind has always been my biggest enemy and I can't help but tie my whole worth to just trying to physically satisfy him as much as I can.
Top Comments:
I would not think someone is a slut just because they can suck dick good. Just be proud of what you did!
Some people are just naturals. Sex is more about being in tune with your partner than it is about a coreographed series of actions upon the junk.
Girl no. If this is how you feel about sex you may not be ready to be having it. Your worth has nothing to do with your sexual performance.
Will you think the same of him when/if he pleasures you? No. So why would he do it?
