I kicked a guy out of my apartment mid sex, and you can too.
I was talking to this guy I matched on bumble for a week and I thought we had great sexual chemistry, he told me absolutely alllll the nice things a woman wants to hear.
And so I decided to invite him over, we started making out. I went down on him and he wouldn't go down on me which i didn't understand because he told me he eats pussy, AND ass.
Well, turns out he doesn't. In his exact sam words " If I told you I don't eat pussy, you wouldn't have any interest in having sex with me" to which I replied, "Fuck yeah I won't!"
If he was honest about it that wouldn have been okay, but I felt manipulated, so i kicked him out.
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I have done this! I was sleeping with someone who tried not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES over the evening to initiate anal sex after I had already refused and asked him not to go there. I was so angry. it took me a good day or two to really feel all the anger. but at the time at least I had the whereabouts to stop him completely and ask him to leave. edit: typos edit again: woof I read op's post and wanted to chime in with a time I felt strong enough to kick someone out instead of being polite, but now I've just got this slightly depressing anecdote in amongst a v animated pussy eating symposium and I feel like the homer-retreating-into-a-hedge gif
I kicked a guy out once because he was like chewing on my lady parts. At first I said ow, go easy, be nice down there, then he was back at it, so i said I don't think we're gonna do this. you have to go. I had sort of forgotten this encounter, it was 20 years ago, but now that i'm thinking about it I'm proud of myself. I haven't always acted with confidence to support and protect myself in sexual situations, but in this one i know i made a good call.
Maybe he thought eating pussy was literal? How awkward.
Good for you. TW: Rape. It took a long time to realize I was raped. My boyfriend at the time was pushy about anal and I said I didn't want to try it yet. He invited a couple of friends over, we had a couple of drinks and I decided to go to the restroom. He followed me. We started kissing and I got on all fours thinking we would just have PIV. Nope. He just shoved it up my ass. Since there were people in the living room I didn't scream or anything. I just took it. It took me a while to feel the anger you felt because in both cases it was a violation. You are awesome for standing up for yourself.
