I think I just discovered a new kink - can this cause orgasm issues?
My bf and I were fooling around in bed the other day and, after getting worked up for a while, I mounted him, hoping for ra quick orgasm.
I don't know where this came from, but for the first time ever, he asked me to tell him when I was close, which I did. Every time I did that, however, he pulled out of me, holding my hips in place so that I was unable to slide down on his member, leaving me pretty frustrated.
After what felt like an endless cycle, he finally let go of my hips, telling me that I had ten seconds to cum -and then he proceeded to count me down verbally. I honestly don't know what this was, because my non-aroused me would call this extremely weird, but I experienced an orgasm when he arrived at zero (he also told me to cum in a very assertive tone of voice).
This did not only work once, but twice (the second time he allowed me to ride freely, but said that I would only be allowed to cum with a finger in a certain place. I kid you not, I could not bring myself to cum, but as soon as I felt his finger enter me, I experienced intense waves of pleasure).
I absolutely loved the experience, I felt completeley safe and it was consentual. My worries are that I develop some kind of issue that stops me from orgasming "naturally" after a while of doing this (maybe there is a term fo that, I don't know). Is this a thing? Or am I overthinking?
