Since when did safe sex be too much to ask for?!
I am a 22f, who went on a date with a 22m. First date went great, lots in common and chemistry. Definitely had sexual chemistry. Before our next date, I mentioned to him to bring condoms as I was open to having sex with him. He didn't disagree to this.
Now to the next date, all is going well invite him back to my place and we start hooking up and go down on one another. Next thing I know, he is about to put his dick in me without a condom. I obviously stop him and ask to put a condom on, he says he hasn't brought any, no worries I say, I think I have some. I manage to find them and then he decides that he won't have sex with one because “never used them before with girls and can't have sex with one”. But assured me he isn't sleeping with anyone else and because I'm on birth control, there is no issue.
Obviously, considering he has never used one with a girl, I definitely was not wanting to have unprotected sex. I explained that it was still early days and we were not exclusive yet and therefore I wasn't comfortable not using a condom. Cut to 30min later he begins kissing me again and grinding on me naked and then tried to push the issue again. I say no again, he decides he doesn't want to see me again.
Since when did protected sex become uncool? Why would a guy refuse to wear a condom? Is he not concerned about STDs himself?
Surely this isn't the new normal...
