Am I in the wrong for buying my daughter a vibrator?
I know to many people this may not sound like a real situation, but here it is. And I am sorry if this is the wrong subreddit. I dont know where else to post this.
Background on me because this is kind of important to why I made this decision: I am a very sex positive person. I am a big advocate in a better sex education in public schools and minimizing the negative stigma surrounding talking about sex to other people.
My daughter is 14 years old. She is at that age where she is becoming curious about her body and how it works. I raised my children to be very open about their questions so they do not worry too much about coming to me about these things. I want to teach her that her body is her own and she can decide what she wants to do with it. She came up to me asking about masturbation. I told her that it is normal to be curious and it is normal for people to touch themselves. She admitted that she has tried a few times, but what was concerning to me is that what she has admitted to using is not safe. It isn't sanitary. So I told her about safe practices with masturbation and I told her about different sex toys that exist. She asked me if she can get one, and I agreed. I bought her a little bullet vibrator. My husband found out about this and he was furious. He told me that she is too young to be using that, but I believe that if she is old enough to ask questions, she is old enough to be told the right information. He said im turning my daughter into someone who is easy (I dont want to say the actual work in case this post gets taken down for that) and that I should not have bought it for her.
