Dating a virgin… what do I do?

Oct 17, 2025

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Okay, here we go. I recently started dating a guy that I am really in to. We hit it off instantly on our first date, and I seen him and I being together for the distant future. On our most recent date we started diving into more serious, sexually natured discussions. During this, he told me that he has never had sex and only had a few girlfriends throughout high school and first year of college (we are both 21). Now I am much more experienced than him in terms of relationships and sexual encounters. He's a darling guy who I absolutely adore, but I have never been with a virgin. I am not at all bothered by this, but I'm not sure if there is any particular way I should approach our first time together. I want it to be great for both of us, but I also remember my first time lol… Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TYIA!

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Just take the lead! I was a virgin and my now wife was more experienced. I asked her what she liked and so she took the lead. Just be calm, help him relax, he will be nervous, but show him what feels good and I'm sure you will have a great time!

He's definitely nervous, but who wasn't their first time. I've got a few ideas about what I would like to try now.. thank you!

Just dont expect to much. The first few times wont be very good. Maybe he cant get hard at all or he cums in a matter of seconds. Both is very common and can happen the first few tries. You can help him taking off some pressure by telling him that you know about these problems for a guy and that its fine for you if that happens. Just be patient and keep on trying if that happens. It will get better every try.

I think part of it would be to make it more about the connection between you than to try and give either of you some unrealistic expectations. It will be great for him no matter what, but he may have some notions of what he wants to be able to do and perform. He might want to wow you etc, and be upset if he doesn't give the performance he thinks he should. So when you talk about it try and manage both your expectations. Talk about how you can't wait to share that moment with him, and how it will mean a lot to you. Talk about how you know it won't be perfect, but that no matter what happens, it will be wonderful. And talk about how you can't wait to start that new chapter of your relationship together and see where it takes you.

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Dating a virgin… what do I do?

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