How do yall not need to shower and re-do getting ready after sex?
My boyfriend and I shower every time after we have sex, and we've been dating 2.5 years. The sex itself is great, but I feel like how "messy" we get is honestly contributing to a decline in frequency, since it prevents me from wanting to have sex if my hair and makeup is done and I still have places to be that day. I tried asking him to not lick anywhere or leave saliva, and just come in my mouth to contain some of the mess, but ultimately we still get sweaty, my hair gets messed up, and I'm going to have to shower.
I hear of so many people that do "quickies" right before work or going to dinner, but how do yall not need to shower after? Or is it a myth and sex is always a little messy? Looking for advice on positions, how to finish each other, stuff like that.
