I told my husband what I liked and he delivered
Let me preface this by saying I just had some of the best sex of my life a few days ago.
Sex with my husband is great as it is. But some time ago, I confided in him that I would like us both to make more sex noises during the act if we're feeling it. Nothing over the top, but just be a little more vocal aside from the occasional moan or sigh. I explained that I get shy sometimes and find myself suppressing any sounds I'd like to get out. He listened and encouraged me to let go next time we have sex and do whatever I like and he'd do the same. I also told him I would love for him to talk dirty to me and hold me while I orgasm.
A few days later, I came home early from work feeling really horny. He works from home, so I went into his home office and sat on his lap, straddled him and kissed him. We stood up and he proceeded to make out with me and finger me. He had his arm around my waist and when I came, my orgasm was so intense my knees buckled and he held me close preventing me from falling. He held me through my orgasm just like I'd asked.
We then had sex alternating positions, ending with cowgirl (his favourite) and I did not hold back. For the first time in years, I did not think, I let myself moan and sigh as loudly and as often as I liked. He did too. The sounds he made made the experience all the more sweeter and hotter. We both had very intense orgasms during the penetrative sex.
I just hope someone reads this and lets their partner know what they want/like. Don't be shy! Your partner probably wants it too, just communicate it to them and have the best sex you've ever had!
